Sunday, June 1, 2014
Man Woman Relationship next Series Part 1 -Delayed marriage of girls – Case study 1
I had started a series of man woman relationship in 2009 and this series was discontinued due to many reasons. Now i am going to start this again will take separate cases and describe this and this will be good for learners also. But i warn that no couple should come to any conclusion by apply these classical principles. Little knowledge may be dangerous and this may destroy the marital bliss. In these case studies i am not going to reveal identity of any male or female.
In modern India if any two social institutions are in danger that is family and marriage. The institution of family in India has experienced a plethora of changes in the contemporary times. The family in present day society, despite India’s age old pluralistic and Unitarian ethos is experiencing rapid but undesirable changes in many spheres of social life, where such a first institution of recorded human history has encountered a range of issues and challenges, like power relation among spouses, unusual marriage patterns, rising migration tendencies alienating elderly stock, unprecedented changes in transport and communication area leading to frequent displacement of people and other modern technological impacts and aspects that have turned man virtually into a mechanized being who has lost all his time, sprit, attachment to or respect for kins, elders, extended family members, grandparents and others.
The social mobility is witnessed highly due to the processes of changing occupational patterns, further sanskritization, westernization, modernization, Ashrafization or for that matter Sayyadization like processes have given impoverished the natural beauty of the family ,instead made it a competing agency in the society. Also it has laid severe impact upon the lives of men and women in varying ways and in turn the form and practices of family life
Family is still safe up to much extant. Now a day number of nuclear families are increasing but through means they are still connected to their joint families their roots. But the natis and potas (grandson/daughters and maternal grandson/daughters) are not connected to their grandparents. they are much more attached to i pads smart phones video games etc. but these medium of communications have connected them to their grandparents. In totality i can say family institution is still safe.
But what about the marriage institution in contemporary India?
With the declining normative structure of the society, various social pathologies have come to fore. The institution of family is deteriorating and with the result divorce, single parent families, no marriages, late marriages, etc, like social realities are emerging. Besides Increase in divorce rates is directly proportional to the increased social acceptance of the divorces in the current dystopian society and vice versa. strained relations or endurance of unhappy marriages have lost significance due to decreasing informal social control, declining religiosity and emergence of a liberal response of the institution of religion towards the issue. Moreover, job stress, incompatibility among couples, distance and work place, failed love marriages, infidelity or extramarital affairs, etc, and above all increased legal aid has facilitated the further social acceptance of divorce. On the reasons for high divorce rates and more importantly the growing social acceptance for divorces, Advocate Sabiha Sindhi, a famous Indian civil lawyer, argues,
Delayed marriages of Girls –
Using data from the India Human Development Survey 2005 a nationally representative sample of 27,365 ever-married women aged 25–49, we empirically examine the relevance of these theoretical constructs in shaping the variations in age at marriage.
A modern woman focussing on career generally forgets to marry though she has had physical relationships have different data of delayed marriages. First of all i discuss here a case of a working woman on a prestigious post .she is 37 now but she is worried about her marriage since seven years but there are very few proposals mostly rejected by men. In future I am going to provide case studies of more delayed marriages, denial of marriages. Spinsters, single women, immorality in women, love, passion in love, suicide in love, married women in multiple relations etc.
Combinations of delayed marriages -
There are many planetary combinations given in our classics i am giving here few which i experienced much.
1. Debilitated seventh lord.
2. Moon, venus conjunction or opposition.
3. Aspect of Saturn on venus.
4. Retograde venus.
5. Venus in “durdhara”,venus in unfertile rashis mithun, simha, kanya. I have found this situation too effective for delayed marriages.
6. Lagna stronger than seventh house and seventh house in pap-kartari
7. Sun afflicting the seventh house or leo sign
8. Lagna in last 05 or first 05 degrees.
9. Afflicted Venus in Navamsa
10. Malefic influence on 7th,7th lord from lagna moon and venus.
11. Malefic influence on 2nd house,8th house,and 12th house from lagna.
12. Retrograde planets in 7th and 2nd house.
13. Mercury, Saturn and venus is considerd adverse.
14. Saturn Jupiter conjunction or aspect also responsible for delays.
15. Planets in the influence of mars/venus in navamsa cause delayed marriages.
16. Affliction to darakarak or darakaraka navamsa
17. 7th house or 7th lord’s association with mandi.
18. Placement of gyatikaraka in the seventh house.
19.7th lord in gadant and mrityu bhaga
20. Debiltated and retrograde venus , Jupiter and seventh lord.
The Girl still unmarried - The astrological interpretation
This girl belongs to a conservative family. She left the village and shifted to a metropolitan city of India. She easily got a prestigious job. During his school days she was in love with a boy. Both almost forgot each other and she became busy in her career. In between on the workplace she stated making relationships with the men. See her ninth and fourth house the house of chastity. Both house badly afflicted in lagna navamsa and in trishamsa as well. See the mars in the rashi of venus in lagna , mutual aspect of Saturn and mars and worst both in dual rashis. Forth and tenth is in the Rahu Ketu axis in trishamsa. In the trishamsa seventh lord mars with Saturn is in rashi of mars.
Application of above principles of delayed marriage-
Lgna lord especially when this is Jupiter with venus makes a person colourful as i have generally noticed.See the seventh lord mercury and gulika. Venus is in Kendra with Jupiter. venus is in a worst pap kartari yoga.jupiter and even the seventh house is in a worst pap kartari yoga. This is probably the most unfavourable combination for the marriage. See the sun is in leo sign or rashi.lagna is placed in the last 5 degrees. venus is afflicted in the navamsa by ketu and Saturn. Now applying next principles we find that seventh lord mercury is aspected by mars. From moon the seventh house is in the Rahu Ketu axis. From venus the seventh house is aspected by the mars. See the worst malefic effects on second, eighth and twelfth. Mercury and venus are also afflicted. Mars and venus both are aspected by Saturn in the navamsa.darakaraka sun is aspected by the mars. Seventh lord is associated with the gulika. Gyatikaraka is in the seventh house of the lagna.
Most of the classical principles of delayed marriage are applied on this horoscope. There are few chances of a marriage with many compromises.
The series to be continued...
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