I had started a series of man woman relationship in 2009 and
this series was discontinued due to many reasons. Now i am going to start this
again will take separate cases and describe this and this will be good for
learners also. But i warn that no couple should come to any conclusion by apply
these classical principles. Little knowledge may be dangerous and this may
destroy the marital bliss. In these case studies i am not going to reveal
identity of any male or female.
In modern India if any two social institutions are in danger
that is family and marriage. The institution of family in India has experienced
a plethora of changes in the contemporary times. The family in present day
society, despite India’s age old pluralistic and Unitarian ethos is
experiencing rapid but undesirable changes in many spheres of social life,
where such a first institution of recorded human history has encountered a
range of issues and challenges, like power relation among spouses, unusual
marriage patterns, rising migration tendencies alienating elderly stock,
unprecedented changes in transport and communication area leading to frequent
displacement of people and other modern technological impacts and aspects that
have turned man virtually into a mechanized being who has lost all his time,
sprit, attachment to or respect for kins, elders, extended family members,
grandparents and others.
The social mobility is witnessed highly due to the processes
of changing occupational patterns, further sanskritization, westernization,
modernization, Ashrafization or for that matter Sayyadization like processes
have given impoverished the natural beauty of the family ,instead made it a
competing agency in the society. Also it has laid severe impact upon the lives
of men and women in varying ways and in turn the form and practices of family
life
Family is still safe
up to much extant. Now a day number of nuclear families are increasing but
through means they are still connected to their joint families their roots. But
the natis and potas
(grandson/daughters and maternal grandson/daughters) are not connected to their
grandparents. they are much more attached to i pads smart phones video games
etc. but these medium of communications have connected them to their grandparents.
In totality i can say family institution is still safe.
But what about the marriage institution in contemporary India?
With the declining
normative structure of the society, various social pathologies have come to
fore. The institution of family is deteriorating and with the result divorce,
single parent families, no marriages, late marriages, etc, like social
realities are emerging. Besides Increase in divorce rates is directly
proportional to the increased social acceptance of the divorces in the current
dystopian society and vice versa. strained relations or endurance of unhappy
marriages have lost significance due to decreasing informal social control,
declining religiosity and emergence of a liberal response of the institution of
religion towards the issue. Moreover, job stress, incompatibility among
couples, distance and work place, failed love marriages, infidelity or
extramarital affairs, etc, and above all increased legal aid has facilitated
the further social acceptance of divorce. On the reasons for high divorce rates
and more importantly the growing social acceptance for divorces, Advocate Sabiha
Sindhi, a famous Indian civil lawyer, argues,
Delayed marriages of
Girls –
Using data from the India Human Development Survey 2005 a
nationally representative sample of 27,365 ever-married women aged 25–49, we
empirically examine the relevance of these theoretical constructs in shaping
the variations in age at marriage.
A modern woman focussing on career generally forgets to
marry though she has had physical relationships have different data of delayed marriages.
First of all i discuss here a case of a working woman on a prestigious post
.she is 37 now but she is worried about her marriage since seven years but
there are very few proposals mostly rejected by men. In future I am going to
provide case studies of more delayed marriages, denial of marriages. Spinsters,
single women, immorality in women, love, passion in love, suicide in love, married
women in multiple relations etc.
Combinations of
delayed marriages -
There are many planetary combinations given in our classics
i am giving here few which i experienced much.
1. Debilitated seventh lord.
2. Moon, venus conjunction or opposition.
3. Aspect of Saturn on venus.
4. Retograde venus.
5. Venus in “durdhara”,venus in unfertile rashis mithun, simha, kanya. I have found this situation
too effective for delayed marriages.
6. Lagna stronger than seventh house and seventh house in
pap-kartari
7. Sun afflicting the seventh house or leo sign
8. Lagna in last 05 or first 05 degrees.
9. Afflicted Venus in Navamsa
10. Malefic influence on 7th,7th lord
from lagna moon and venus.
11. Malefic influence on 2nd house,8th
house,and 12th house from lagna.
12. Retrograde planets in 7th and 2nd
house.
13. Mercury, Saturn and venus is considerd adverse.
14. Saturn Jupiter conjunction or aspect also responsible
for delays.
15. Planets in the influence of mars/venus in navamsa cause
delayed marriages.
16. Affliction to darakarak or darakaraka navamsa
17. 7th house or 7th lord’s
association with mandi.
18. Placement of gyatikaraka in the seventh house.
19.7th lord in gadant and mrityu bhaga
20. Debiltated and retrograde venus , Jupiter and seventh
lord.
The Girl still unmarried
- The astrological interpretation
This girl belongs to a conservative family. She left the
village and shifted to a metropolitan city of India. She easily got a
prestigious job. During his school days she was in love with a boy. Both almost
forgot each other and she became busy in her career. In between on the
workplace she stated making relationships with the men. See her ninth and
fourth house the house of chastity. Both house badly afflicted in lagna navamsa
and in trishamsa as well. See the mars in the rashi of venus in lagna , mutual aspect
of Saturn and mars and worst both in dual rashis. Forth and tenth is in the
Rahu Ketu axis in trishamsa. In the trishamsa seventh lord mars with Saturn is
in rashi of mars.
Application of above
principles of delayed marriage-
Lgna lord especially when this is Jupiter with venus makes a
person colourful as i have generally noticed.See the seventh lord mercury and
gulika. Venus is in Kendra with Jupiter. venus is in a worst pap kartari
yoga.jupiter and even the seventh house is in a worst pap kartari yoga. This is
probably the most unfavourable combination for the marriage. See the sun is in
leo sign or rashi.lagna is placed in the last 5 degrees. venus is afflicted in
the navamsa by ketu and Saturn. Now applying next principles we find that
seventh lord mercury is aspected by mars. From moon the seventh house is in the
Rahu Ketu axis. From venus the seventh house is aspected by the mars. See the
worst malefic effects on second, eighth and twelfth. Mercury and venus are also
afflicted. Mars and venus both are aspected by Saturn in the navamsa.darakaraka
sun is aspected by the mars. Seventh lord is associated with the gulika. Gyatikaraka
is in the seventh house of the lagna.
Most of the classical principles of delayed marriage are
applied on this horoscope. There are few chances of a marriage with many
compromises.
The series to be continued...
